“If you think an artist is trustworthy, you've never met one.”
“If an artist has kids, he doesn't spend much time with them.”
I read these words in a certain influential music industry blog that had been recommended to me, and my defensiveness went into high alert.
I am an artist, a food justice activist, and a mother -- who at that moment happened to have some 20 spare minutes to write a response while my artist husband was yes, spending time with our kids. In my two paragraphs full of passion and typos I told of how my parenting and my music are inextricably intertwined, and described the dedicated parenting and artistic accomplishments of my Grammy-nominated bassist husband. In parting, I mentioned that I thought we were both pretty ”trustworthy.” Personally so, was the implication, but for me, it’s broader than that. Read more